SWEET MARRIAGE SWEET HOME (SMSH)
DR. MRS. GLORY OBIOMA
Dr. Glory is a teacher of the gospel of Christ, a marriage and relationship coach, an administrator, counselor and Educational per excellence. She has several awards accredited to her by local and international bodies. Dr. Mrs. Glory Udo Obioma is a firm disciplinarian with an ever amiable ambience laced with words of wisdom. She has a high level of discernment which aids her administration and counseling services.Dr. Glory has a strong passion for single ladies and have over the years been a mother figure in the lives of those who do not have as well as plays a mentorship role to them through her monthly vigils and one on one counseling session. Also, her strongest passion which is seeing people enjoy
VEN. DR.& DR. MRS UDO OBIOMA
Proverbs 24:3 (KJV) Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: For you to enjoy family peace,you need to operate in wisdom.
Wisdom is knowing what to do and doing it. It is knowing what to do in a situation and doing it. Wisdom is the right application of knowledge. Wisdom handles challenges. Joy in a family is as a result of the right application of wisdom. In order to maintain and enjoy peace in your family, there are things that have to be done. Amongst them are: Laying a foundation of peace – The foundation of lasting peace is the word of God. God instituted marriage and to enjoy peace in the family, there has to be a constant study of God’s word by everyone in the family. You must see God’s word as the final instruction in your family.
Hebrews 1:3a (KJV) Who being the brightness of his glory, and the express image of his person, and upholding all things by the word of his power.
Being conversant with your family members – You need to know the strengths and weaknesses of everyone in the family. Never work by assumption because it leads to destruction. Study your family members and focus on their strengths not their weaknesses. Never assume they know what you know. Maintain good communication link always for better understanding. As soon as you dictate a problem, ensure it is confronted and corrected.
1 Samuel 25:15 (KJV) But the men were very good unto us, and we were not hurt, neither missed we anything, as long as we were conversant with them, when we were in the fields: ‘Leaving’ your father and mother – Marriage is a covenant not a contract because covenants, unlike contracts, are breakable. Some people are married but still mentally and emotionally cleave to their parents. As a married woman or man, you should focus on building your own home with your spouse. Making unnecessary references to your parents in discussions or when issues arise with your spouse, signifies you haven’t left your father and mother. Until you leave your parents emotionally, you won’t enjoy peace in your marriage and family because your spouse and children will be forced to feel incompetent. Focus on building your family.
Genesis 2:24 (KJV) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Avoiding wrong company – If you take counsel from a confusionist, your family will take destruction. A married person should not keep close relationship with single people because he or she will be influenced by the single’s lifestyle. Avoid wrong company if you want to enjoy lasting peace in your family. 1 Corinthians 15:33 (KJV) Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
For a peaceful family, everyone in the family has a role to play. All hands should be on deck to enjoy peace in the home.
BUILDING A PEACEFUL HOME
Crisis in families in not a satanic invasion but a wisdom deficiency. Temptation comes to must families that is capable of tearing them apart but they are still living in peace while others with similar temptations are having their marriages and families rocking left and right. What has made some people divorce is what made some marriages stronger by application of wisdom.
1Cor.10:13 – There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
Challenges come to every home but wisdom handles the challenges. It is wisdom that you need to handle challenges in your home. There is what to do to enjoy a peaceful home.
You need wisdom to enjoy peace in your family. Peace will not come by wishing; it will come by conscious application of the wisdom of God. The church of Jesus Christ is made up of families and the degree of peace each family enjoys affects the body of Christ.
If you want to have a tension-free family peace, God’s word is the answer. God instituted marriage and family. He left His manual on how to enjoy a peaceful home which is the Word of God. If you ignore the instructions in the manual of God, your family will face challenges. If you want peace in your family, you must go back to the word of God.
John 16:33 – These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
One of the offspring of wisdom is peace; that is why Solomon had peace despite all the adversaries against him more than David his father who fought war all through his life. Solomon operated in wisdom while David operated more in strength.
In case your family is experiencing one challenge or the other, or at the verge of collapsing, I decree peace! I decree supernatural reconciliation in the name of Jesus Christ! No matter what is trying to break you, God will not allow it to happen in your family! There shall be restoration in the name of Jesus!
God’s original design is for you is to have ‘Home, Sweet Home’. That was why He created the first man and woman and left them in a garden; not in a forest. God kept them in a place where they can have the sweetness of life. May you enjoy sweetness in your family in the name of Jesus –Shaloam